About Him
I think my best friend would describe me as honest, detailed, and very organized." "I think my best friend would say that I'm very responsible. Whenever our group of friends had to coordinate an activity, they always relied on me." "My best friend would probably say that I'm warm, friendly, and understanding."
Likes :
I like ( read love, adore, dream, think :D ) pets. Dogs, cats, birds . Any pet. They love so unconditionally. Without any expectations and judgemental behaviour. For whole life. Forever and always.
I love mountains. And winters. And snowfall. I guess one day I will just shift to mountains with pets. 😀
People with kindness. In a person, kindness is what I look for. This is such an underrated trait. Compassion, kindness, humility, generosity - all these make a person so much more attractive and fascinating.
Red sauce pasta, chai , Netflix. Bas jindagi jannat hai.
Dislikes :
Reservation. This is hampering India's growth. I can go on this topic for days. 😀
Liars. I hate people who lie. Make me feel worthless. As if I'm not at all important . Hate it when someone breaks my trust.
People who always show off and are rude to other people. Okay, your watch costed you a fortune, I get it. Stop repeating this again and again..
Someone who is indian but ashamed of Hindi. English is not your mother tongue. Stop behaving like you are from UK with that fake accent.
People who enjoy putting others down and are not polite with people who work under them.
‘I know everything' people .Stop making fun of other people. Period.
Someone who chew or eat or drink loudly. Stop slurping your drinks peopleee!
About His Ideal Match
An ideal partner has grown up.
One common criticism people make about their partners is that they need to “grow up.” What many of us fail to recognize is that growing up is not merely a matter of acting like an adult. To truly grow up means recognizing and resolving early childhood traumas or losses, and then understanding how these events influence our current behaviors.
Therefore the ideal partner is willing to reflect on their past. They possess a maturity that comes from being emotionally emancipated from their family of origin. They have developed a strong sense of independence and autonomy, having made the psychological shift from boy to man or girl to woman. Having broken ties to old identities and patterns, this person is more available to their partner and the new family they have created, as oppose to the one in which they were born.
Because this partner has grown up, they are less likely to re-enact childhood experiences in an intimate relationship. Because they have evolved as a person, they aren’t looking for someone to compensate for shortcomings and weaknesses. They aren’t looking for someone to complete their incompleteness. Rather this person is looking for someone like themselves. They are looking for another adult with qualities similar to theirs, with whom they can share life in a compatible fashion.